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Myths & Facts Of An Asian Woman and A Westerner Marriage

What Fine Dining..?

Posted by Mrs SPG

Not all Ang Mohs love to eat in restaurant.  If you think that after going home to the states with him. .and you will be dining and wineing .. like when he was in Asia.. on company’s account.. you would be in a rude shock.

The ang mohs that i know prefer home cooked food.. or sandwiches.  Some loves their pizzas so much.. you wouldn’t believe what a fat slop they can become. Like mine.. he wouldn’t even try the food that I cook .. from home.   Of course they do go out and eat in restaurants.. but not on a weekly basis.  So braise yourself .. girlfriend..!! high -living.. is prolly not what he had in mind either..at home.

Ang Mohs More Patient

Posted by Mrs SPG

I guess it is true in my case.. I don’t see very much .. the man blowing up . .or arguing. .or fighting with me.  In all our years together.. he hasn’t really blown up.  Alot different from the Asian man.. who would either be slapping the woman around.. just because they can. The ang moh usually talk things out.. alot different from the Asian man.. who would slam the door and leave the house. .and go for drinks in the nearby mamak store.. with his friends.. and try to make friends with other girls sitting there.

Money, You & The White Man

Posted by Mrs SPG

Some people think that the white men that you are with.. and flew home with .. will be taking care of your every needs .. meaning food, clothing.. and accessories.  To a certain extend it is.. but would you really feel good being an invalid in a foreign country…??

It irks me to think that some asian women would think that it is going to be a fairy tale.. and you don’t have to work.. or do anything.. except provide him with lots of sex.  But hold your horses sister..!  life goes on.. and after the honeymoon period.. they still prefer that you go out and work.. and earn your keeps too.  As for being an asian.. and more hardworking.. we all end up finding jobs .. and making our own money.. on top of looking after the kids.. and cleaning the whole house.. and more.

I am pretty lucky.. because the man owns his own business.. and i didn’t have to look for a job.  But i do help out in the store.. and wherever i can.  On top of it.. i try not to spend too much on myself.. so you see the fun in it..??

The Horrid Weather

Posted by Mrs SPG

Moving to another country may seems alot glamourous to alot of people but before you put your tiny little butt onto a plane, remember to check the weather all year round before packing that suitcase.  In my case, I didn’t know that winter was like 6 months a year.  Yes..! it suxs big time..!! when heat cost a bomb.. and the roads are dangerous.. and you are forever cold.  Unless, you are going to be in sunny california.. i advice you big time.. to make sure you know where you butt will be for at least the next 5 yrs.

So You Think He Is Smitten..!

Posted by Mrs SPG

He may be.. when he was in Asia.. or maybe even holidaying or meeting you online.. but the reality is such..  once you get to know each other for a certain amount of time.. if you have got nothing to contribute in terms of the brain.. or the looks.. it can pretty much die down pretty quick.

Be prepared.. to be shipped back. .and the hard fact is that when you came here .. you may not even have all your papers correctly done.  If so, you are in big trouble sister..!  so make sure that your paperwork is done before leaving home.. else you will not have any health care.. and you may even become an illegal immigrant.. on the run.

White Men Have Affairs Too.. Sister..!!

Posted by Mrs SPG

Yes.. ! ang mohs are very nice to their g/fs or wife.. but when they do find a new love.. or new interest.. they too can cheat on you .. and have affairs.  Depending on who the man or the woman may be.. marrying an ang moh does not guarantee you a love so long.. it’s never ending.  So make sure.. you know who your ang moh is .. before throwing everything away.. and jump onto the plane and move your world around him.

Sandwich Is His Daily Staple Food

Posted by Mrs SPG

Yes.. the ang moh feels that food means nothing.. and wished he didn’t have to eat again.. but since it is a necessity to keep alive.. he would eat sandwich anytime.. anyday.. and everyday.  Food is just food.. and nothing more.. he doesn’t enjoy dining and making small conversations.

Good With Their Hands

Posted by Mrs SPG

The westerners are very handy people and almost 99% of the time, you can find them doing something to the house or yard to build their own thing.  Mine made a garbage box .. to hold garbage at the front lawn.  I’m sure some Asian guys are handy too.. but they are usually so pampered by their mothers.. they don’t even know how to change a lightbulb.  Yes..! it’s true.. and i’m so not kidding either.

Are The Hairy White Man More Horny..?

Posted by Mrs SPG

So what you think..?? are ang mohs “white” more horny than the chinese..?? or any asian..?? I wouldn’t say they are more horny.. i guess most ang mohs .. they think they are Casanova .. or something along those lines.. and most love the petite gals in asia… just because the western gals are usually big.. but very quickly they may also find that the asian gals .. may not be as educated as the western counterparts. For those who’ve met a pretty and intellectual asian gal.. well.. of course.. they would definitely try to be the porn star .. that they are not.
So once again.. I seriously think the ang mohs “white” make themselves horny .. and more romantic.. because they are dealing with a different species of woman. But not all ang mohs are gentleman.. and some i know can be doing it.. just because of a fling. So Asian gals .. beware..!

White Men Are All Rich Fellas..?

Posted by Mrs SPG

If you think that marrying or getting involved with a white guy automatically makes you a rich woman .. then you cannot be further from the truth.  Not all white guys are rich.. and they prefer that you work.. after marrying him.  Of course, the ones you met when they were in Asia.. and they stay in private condos.. are actually those that are paid by their company.. and expenses too.

But when they are home, things are different.  So if you are thinking of marrying a rich “ang moh” or “white” man.. stop dreaming.. ! and come back to earth.  Some cannot even find a job.. after they go home.  Many a times.. i hear that some go on welfare.. for years.. and lived on their girlfriends.. or wives.. or wait for their welfare cheque to come.. so that they can get groceries.

So if you are thinking of dropping everything in asia.. and going to the United States is so glamorous .. think again.

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