World in our Hands

Myths & Facts Of An Asian Woman and A Westerner Marriage

Filipino Maid

Posted by Mrs SPG

My mother’s new Filipino maid is only 22  and she had been working for my brother and my mom of course for about 6 months.  You see, my mother and brother and his wife are usually out from 8am in the morning .. till late in the afternoon because they all run the family business.  Well, of course the niece stays at home with the maid.

Tonight my mother called to complain about the Filipino maid, and darn these maids, not just one or two or three .. GOD DAMN IT.. it’s blardy all of them.  Besides my mother’s house, they had a row of new house being put up – under construction .. and guess what..?? apparently the new maid of less than 6 months got hooked up with a Bangladeshi construction worker and is currently pregnant.  *slap forehead*

Despite the fact that my mother was upset, she tried to resolve this issue for her by looking up the man for her.  But guess what..?? the Bangladeshi fella said.. that my mother’s maid is a prostitute and charges for having sex with a few of them.. and he wasn’t the father or denies it.  *slap forehead* .. and apparently THE FILIPINO MAID  BROUGHT THOSE MEN HOME, when looking after my niece .. *slap forehead*.   I swear you can’t even hire them to be maids these days.. I’ve heard so many horror stories.. and we’ve experienced so many, don’t even get me started on them.  To think that there are men out there so stupid as to wanting to marry them.

Sorry .. It Had Been This Long !

Posted by Mrs SPG

Yes..! i wasn’t in the mood to write.. all because it sometimes feel shitty to be here when the man’s mother don’t feel you are family.. and tell you that it was illegal .. to use their family name.. after of being 8 yrs in this country.

See gals..!! make sure you get your status right.. and don’t be like me.  I choose not to get married.. because I wasn’t proposed to properly.. and everytime we talked about it.. he would say.. whatever you want.  So it is not his want..??  therefore.. i know he is not very much into me.. and is not in the situation .. where he cannot lived without me.. but moreso for the kid.  So i chose not to marry… that way if anything goes wrong.. i can just pack and walk.

Does it make sense to you all..??  i came for a dream. .and love.. but i feel so alone now.  If not for my kid.. i think i would already have walked out.

Is It Really Love..??

Posted by Mrs SPG

I read on another blog a few days ago.. her “LOVE” story and how she got married to her husband.. she is a filipino.. and him.. a American. They were penpals .. and he went to philippines to visit his other penpals in Manila.  After his visiting .. he visited her.. and proposed on the same nite.. the same day they met.

OMG..!!  can it really be true love..?? on his part..?? and hers..?? or just desperation on both.  Afterall, he met other philippinos before her..?? so they were either darn ugly or old.. or she is just an old maid..??  How could it be love right..?? C’mon..!! you’ve gotta be kidding me.

Some Can Be Lame

Posted by Mrs SPG

Some of the friends i know.. wants to marry an Asian girl because they are supposedly more submissive.  Now how lame is that..?? Whenever they say that.. i wished i could just jump over the counter and smack them on their heads.  Some Asian girls may be submissive.. but even those.. once they are here long enough.. they learn to stand up for themselves.. and others.. who just marry to get outta their country.. well.. you know as soon as they get here.. and get their legal status..you are a GOOONNNERRRR..!!!  now who is gonna get the last laugh..??

Sex With An Older White Men

Posted by Mrs SPG

I see many pinays or filipinos.. marrying older white men.. in the name of love.. but i know it is not really true. Well.. some may finally fall in love.. and love till the end.. and what nots. But i know the filipinos .. are really a bunch of gals who can’t wait to get outta their poor life.. and think that marrying a white man is their ticket to richness.. or poorness.

They go home.. and flaunt themselves.. with their older white men.. who are probably retired.. and on a pension and some kind of welfare.. making others think that they are doing ok. But in fact… how do one have sex.. with a man as old as your father..?? pray tell.

Poor Chinese Girlfriend

Posted by Mrs SPG

I used to know a girl who got involved with an engineer back home.  He was of course only in Asia for work.. for a few weeks at a time.  They worked together.. and when he went to Asia.. he would be staying in a hotel.  Poor chinese girlfriend of mine.. got involved with him… she was only 20 yrs old.. he was a little older.  Young . .and of course eager to try a chinese girl.. didn’t know she was a virgin.  Poor girl.. thought that giving him her virginity .. would go home with him.

But he never thought about that at all.. because he was having a fling.. and thinks that she wasn’t suitable for him at all.  And left without even saying goodbye.  You see he had high hopes in his career path.. and he wasn’t letting a very naive asian gal ruin his career.

Poor Chinese girlfriend of mine.. cried till her eyes came out.. but he never even bothered to write back… and not an email.  You tell me.. even those not married ones.. they may not bring you home.