Not all white men are highly educated .. the ones you see on the net .. may not turn out to be true to what they say they are.  Some are even on welfare.. and can’t even find a job.. for years.  So if you ever get hooked up with someone like that.. you are probably doomed.  Plus flights back home ain’t cheap.  I know of a few men like this over here.

Till this day.. after being with the man for 8 yrs physically.. ppl still look at me funny.. not staring or anything.. but you know what i mean.. curious. Some Asian women might thing that getting an ang moh (white man) makes one higher class  Now don’t say no.. i know what you are thinking.. because i thought this way at some point of my life too.  But of course.. it is not true.. ang moh (white man) or not.. he is still human.. and have flaws.. like any other man.

I think most of them do.. and they kinda change when they have their own.. even those that donch like kids. But i have to warn you .. that some white men wants to have kids.. only because the kids get some kind of a welfare cheques from the government.. depending on what age they are. So the more they have.. the more money will come in.. and the more they don’t have to work.

Sorry .. for being so crass .. but there is really no other way to call them.  I had a friend .. who is a white man.. and came to singapore for a few weeks for work.  Seriously, I don’t know how he would have found this thai girl in Orchard Road.. but he did.  And he had paid i heard a few hundred dollars to have sex with her.. and not even the full nite.

We all know that prostitute in Thailand is a dime to a dozen.. but silly white man like my friend don’t know any better.. and what’s more..??? he “fell in love” with her.  Every other nite.. he would try and get to see her.. of course he would have to pay her.. and all.  And he was withdrawing money from his credit card for it.

When he went home.. he started selling his stuff and house in the States.. for a trip back to Singapore..!  just to see her.. *slap forehead*.  This time he spent more time with her.. because he was on vacation.  When he had no money left.. he went home.. and she continued staying.. and yes.. continued her trade.

She doesn’t speak well in English at all.. and whenever she would call him long distance.. she was going on .. about ..  “darling.. i need this” .. “darling .. i need that.. ” i think it finally sunk in that she was just into his money.  Sucker or what..??

I think for my case is quite different.. because the white man that i’m with..  didn’t get to meet me first.. or worked in Aisia.  Unlike most white man.. who had been to Asia.. for work or holiday.. they seems quite fascinated by the demure asian gals and think of them .. as very interesting.

What i can’t understand is how does a white man who only speaks in English .. can fall in love with a chinese girl from China.. who hardly speaks in English….???  or a philipino gal.. who hardly speaks proper english..?? Communication i’m sure must be a real problem.. and what common interest .. or similarities.. are there.. for them..??   Seriously i have no idea..???  do you ..??

I don’t know about other Western man .. but the man i am with .. never forces himself on me.. nor demand sex when i don’t feel well.. or just don’t want to do it.  The Chinese man is way different.. i know of some .. who needs to have it.. even though their girlfriend is sick. or having their menses.. while others .. they just don’t want sex.. or only have it once a month.  The western man.. they go with what the woman wants.. and not the other way around.  So because of that.. maybe.. that’s the reason why .. many an asian.. choose the Western man for their live partner..??

It is always thought that the white man is good in bed. .and sex.  Being with one.. definitely gives me the right to kiss and tell eh..??  Well.. yes.. the white man is absolutely different from the asians.  They are considered very considerate.. and try to take care of your needs first.. but let me tell you .. like the asian men.. they roll over and fall asleep too.. after sex.

Think again.. SISTER..! He may be .. when he was in Asia.. because he wants to appear to be the superior being .. against the limpy Asian man.  But like any relationship.. and if you already have kids.. sex takes the secondary need .. which in some ways is good.  But of course.. if you don’t give them enough sex.. they probaby use this as an excuse to look for another fresher asian face.  I have seen too many asian girls thinking that they can replace the old one.. but it’s not true.. if they can do it with their present one.. they can do it to you too.

I guess it is true in my case.. I don’t see very much .. the man blowing up . .or arguing. .or fighting with me.  In all our years together.. he hasn’t really blown up.  Alot different from the Asian man.. who would either be slapping the woman around.. just because they can. The ang moh usually talk things out.. alot different from the Asian man.. who would slam the door and leave the house. .and go for drinks in the nearby mamak store.. with his friends.. and try to make friends with other girls sitting there.