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Myths & Facts Of An Asian Woman and A Westerner Marriage

Sex With An Older White Men

Posted by Mrs SPG

I see many pinays or filipinos.. marrying older white men.. in the name of love.. but i know it is not really true. Well.. some may finally fall in love.. and love till the end.. and what nots. But i know the filipinos .. are really a bunch of gals who can’t wait to get outta their poor life.. and think that marrying a white man is their ticket to richness.. or poorness.

They go home.. and flaunt themselves.. with their older white men.. who are probably retired.. and on a pension and some kind of welfare.. making others think that they are doing ok. But in fact… how do one have sex.. with a man as old as your father..?? pray tell.

Older White Men

Posted by Mrs SPG

Older white men who are working in Asia .. because of their company sending them there.. doesn’t mean that they can be trusted. Some do have wife or girlfriend back home. .and as soon as they are done with their work.. they will not hesitate to leave you .. and go home to their wives.. and girlfriends.

Older white men.. are very much cheekier.. and wanna have affairs.. even though they may seems gentlemanly .. to you. But if they had to choose .. they will choose their wives and girlfriends from back home. So be careful.. !

Sex and the Western Man

Posted by Mrs SPG

I don’t know about other Western man .. but the man i am with .. never forces himself on me.. nor demand sex when i don’t feel well.. or just don’t want to do it.  The Chinese man is way different.. i know of some .. who needs to have it.. even though their girlfriend is sick. or having their menses.. while others .. they just don’t want sex.. or only have it once a month.  The western man.. they go with what the woman wants.. and not the other way around.  So because of that.. maybe.. that’s the reason why .. many an asian.. choose the Western man for their live partner..??

Just Like Asian Men

Posted by Mrs SPG

Just like the asian men .. the ang mohs needs to be told .. on what to buy.. and what to clean.. or what to do next.  Unfortunately, in this area.. they are not any better than our asian forefathers… even though they are more willing to help out than our grandfathers.

So if you think that your man is smart.. and no need to be told.. think again..!! you will still get the same kinda stress.. that you will get with the asian man.

Poor Chinese Girlfriend

Posted by Mrs SPG

I used to know a girl who got involved with an engineer back home.  He was of course only in Asia for work.. for a few weeks at a time.  They worked together.. and when he went to Asia.. he would be staying in a hotel.  Poor chinese girlfriend of mine.. got involved with him… she was only 20 yrs old.. he was a little older.  Young . .and of course eager to try a chinese girl.. didn’t know she was a virgin.  Poor girl.. thought that giving him her virginity .. would go home with him.

But he never thought about that at all.. because he was having a fling.. and thinks that she wasn’t suitable for him at all.  And left without even saying goodbye.  You see he had high hopes in his career path.. and he wasn’t letting a very naive asian gal ruin his career.

Poor Chinese girlfriend of mine.. cried till her eyes came out.. but he never even bothered to write back… and not an email.  You tell me.. even those not married ones.. they may not bring you home.

They Are Smart

Posted by Mrs SPG

Most must think that their “ang mohs” are smart.. and can hold a conversation really well.  Well.. i’ll have to agree about this one.  No matter how much they don’t like to yak.. like my man.. they can old a good conversation.. unlike some of the Chinese counterparts .. that i’ve dated before.  I’ve not seen an inferior ang moh.. so far.

No They Don’t Own Their Own Houses

Posted by Mrs SPG

Most of you gals must think that the “ang mohs” own their own home.. but let me tell you .. they don’t. Almost all the i know.. rent the house or apartment they lived in. For someone to own their own home here.. you have to put up 20% in deposit.. and you have to have a good steady job.. and good credit rating. In places like where i lived right now.. jobs do not pay so much.. and most people work seasonal here.. and are on unemployment .. for a good part of the year.

So don’t think that your knight with shining amour comes with lots of properties on hand.. for you to stay in.

Maids You Will Not Have

Posted by Mrs SPG

Nope.. no maid at all..!! so if you think you don’t have to lift a finger .. like when you were in Asia with him.. think again.  Practically everything that needs to be done.. has to be done by yours truly. From cleaning to cooking to mowing the lawn.. and shoveling the snow.  The ang moh is not really as pro-active nor sauvey anymore.  Bring your cleaning stuff with you.

Immigration & You

Posted by Mrs SPG

Marrying a white man.. doesn’t automatically make you a citizen in USA or England.  You still have to go thru’ many stringent interviews .. paper work. .and of course money for doing your immigration papers.  A good $2K is involved excluding medical check ups..and xrays.  So if your idea of getting involved with the white man in asia.. is to get you citizenship.. and bringing your whole family to USA .. think again.

Money, You & The White Man

Posted by Mrs SPG

Some people think that the white men that you are with.. and flew home with .. will be taking care of your every needs .. meaning food, clothing.. and accessories.  To a certain extend it is.. but would you really feel good being an invalid in a foreign country…??

It irks me to think that some asian women would think that it is going to be a fairy tale.. and you don’t have to work.. or do anything.. except provide him with lots of sex.  But hold your horses sister..!  life goes on.. and after the honeymoon period.. they still prefer that you go out and work.. and earn your keeps too.  As for being an asian.. and more hardworking.. we all end up finding jobs .. and making our own money.. on top of looking after the kids.. and cleaning the whole house.. and more.

I am pretty lucky.. because the man owns his own business.. and i didn’t have to look for a job.  But i do help out in the store.. and wherever i can.  On top of it.. i try not to spend too much on myself.. so you see the fun in it..??

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