Just like the asian men .. the ang mohs needs to be told .. on what to buy.. and what to clean.. or what to do next.  Unfortunately, in this area.. they are not any better than our asian forefathers… even though they are more willing to help out than our grandfathers.

So if you think that your man is smart.. and no need to be told.. think again..!! you will still get the same kinda stress.. that you will get with the asian man.

I used to know a girl who got involved with an engineer back home.  He was of course only in Asia for work.. for a few weeks at a time.  They worked together.. and when he went to Asia.. he would be staying in a hotel.  Poor chinese girlfriend of mine.. got involved with him… she was only 20 yrs old.. he was a little older.  Young . .and of course eager to try a chinese girl.. didn’t know she was a virgin.  Poor girl.. thought that giving him her virginity .. would go home with him.

But he never thought about that at all.. because he was having a fling.. and thinks that she wasn’t suitable for him at all.  And left without even saying goodbye.  You see he had high hopes in his career path.. and he wasn’t letting a very naive asian gal ruin his career.

Poor Chinese girlfriend of mine.. cried till her eyes came out.. but he never even bothered to write back… and not an email.  You tell me.. even those not married ones.. they may not bring you home.

Most must think that their “ang mohs” are smart.. and can hold a conversation really well.  Well.. i’ll have to agree about this one.  No matter how much they don’t like to yak.. like my man.. they can old a good conversation.. unlike some of the Chinese counterparts .. that i’ve dated before.  I’ve not seen an inferior ang moh.. so far.

Most of you gals must think that the “ang mohs” own their own home.. but let me tell you .. they don’t. Almost all the i know.. rent the house or apartment they lived in. For someone to own their own home here.. you have to put up 20% in deposit.. and you have to have a good steady job.. and good credit rating. In places like where i lived right now.. jobs do not pay so much.. and most people work seasonal here.. and are on unemployment .. for a good part of the year.

So don’t think that your knight with shining amour comes with lots of properties on hand.. for you to stay in.

Nope.. no maid at all..!! so if you think you don’t have to lift a finger .. like when you were in Asia with him.. think again.  Practically everything that needs to be done.. has to be done by yours truly. From cleaning to cooking to mowing the lawn.. and shoveling the snow.  The ang moh is not really as pro-active nor sauvey anymore.  Bring your cleaning stuff with you.

Marrying a white man.. doesn’t automatically make you a citizen in USA or England.  You still have to go thru’ many stringent interviews .. paper work. .and of course money for doing your immigration papers.  A good $2K is involved excluding medical check ups..and xrays.  So if your idea of getting involved with the white man in asia.. is to get you citizenship.. and bringing your whole family to USA .. think again.

Some people think that the white men that you are with.. and flew home with .. will be taking care of your every needs .. meaning food, clothing.. and accessories.  To a certain extend it is.. but would you really feel good being an invalid in a foreign country…??

It irks me to think that some asian women would think that it is going to be a fairy tale.. and you don’t have to work.. or do anything.. except provide him with lots of sex.  But hold your horses sister..!  life goes on.. and after the honeymoon period.. they still prefer that you go out and work.. and earn your keeps too.  As for being an asian.. and more hardworking.. we all end up finding jobs .. and making our own money.. on top of looking after the kids.. and cleaning the whole house.. and more.

I am pretty lucky.. because the man owns his own business.. and i didn’t have to look for a job.  But i do help out in the store.. and wherever i can.  On top of it.. i try not to spend too much on myself.. so you see the fun in it..??

Moving to another country may seems alot glamourous to alot of people but before you put your tiny little butt onto a plane, remember to check the weather all year round before packing that suitcase.  In my case, I didn’t know that winter was like 6 months a year.  Yes..! it suxs big time..!! when heat cost a bomb.. and the roads are dangerous.. and you are forever cold.  Unless, you are going to be in sunny california.. i advice you big time.. to make sure you know where you butt will be for at least the next 5 yrs.

Yes.. ! ang mohs are very nice to their g/fs or wife.. but when they do find a new love.. or new interest.. they too can cheat on you .. and have affairs.  Depending on who the man or the woman may be.. marrying an ang moh does not guarantee you a love so long.. it’s never ending.  So make sure.. you know who your ang moh is .. before throwing everything away.. and jump onto the plane and move your world around him.