Not all white men are highly educated .. the ones you see on the net .. may not turn out to be true to what they say they are.  Some are even on welfare.. and can’t even find a job.. for years.  So if you ever get hooked up with someone like that.. you are probably doomed.  Plus flights back home ain’t cheap.  I know of a few men like this over here.

Alot of ppl would come by our store and ask me about my immigration process.  I don’t know about others.. but i’m pretty sure that the immigration officer doing your paper work has lots of experience with different woman from different country.

Alot of filipinos and china woman are here in Canada.. and the Vietnamese, i think as soon as they settle down.. they bring their entire family plus the extended ones here too.  Recently i’ve seen a surge of immigrants from muslim countries as well.. but they are mostly professioinals unlike the filipinos who are here to hook the white fishes.

I didn’t have any trouble with my immigration papers .. and got an immediate temporary approval for it.  But i know of some who don’t have their papers and insurance after being here for so many years.  Like i said.. these immigration officers are very smart..and they can sport those that are here for a genuine purpose and those that are finding a way out of provety.

So what are you views on mixed marriages..?? ppl are very curious.. about mixed marriages.. and how we survived.  Afterall, we are brought up in different cultures.. and different upbringing. Sure .. no one wants to tell anyone.. that their spouse are different.. we just want the world .. and our friends to know the good side only.  But are mixed marriages any different from non mixed marriages..?? i don’t really think so..  because even though we do have our cultural difference, the man do kinda is more open minded and more lenient towards my idiosyncrasies and my chinese believes. But is every white man the same..?? maybe not.. ??  in the case of my girlfriend .. the white man felt there would be too much to handle .. so he didn’t even dare call or write to her. .when he went back to the states.

I think for my case is quite different.. because the white man that i’m with..  didn’t get to meet me first.. or worked in Aisia.  Unlike most white man.. who had been to Asia.. for work or holiday.. they seems quite fascinated by the demure asian gals and think of them .. as very interesting.

What i can’t understand is how does a white man who only speaks in English .. can fall in love with a chinese girl from China.. who hardly speaks in English….???  or a philipino gal.. who hardly speaks proper english..?? Communication i’m sure must be a real problem.. and what common interest .. or similarities.. are there.. for them..??   Seriously i have no idea..???  do you ..??

I see many pinays or filipinos.. marrying older white men.. in the name of love.. but i know it is not really true. Well.. some may finally fall in love.. and love till the end.. and what nots. But i know the filipinos .. are really a bunch of gals who can’t wait to get outta their poor life.. and think that marrying a white man is their ticket to richness.. or poorness.

They go home.. and flaunt themselves.. with their older white men.. who are probably retired.. and on a pension and some kind of welfare.. making others think that they are doing ok. But in fact… how do one have sex.. with a man as old as your father..?? pray tell.

Older white men who are working in Asia .. because of their company sending them there.. doesn’t mean that they can be trusted. Some do have wife or girlfriend back home. .and as soon as they are done with their work.. they will not hesitate to leave you .. and go home to their wives.. and girlfriends.

Older white men.. are very much cheekier.. and wanna have affairs.. even though they may seems gentlemanly .. to you. But if they had to choose .. they will choose their wives and girlfriends from back home. So be careful.. !

I don’t know about other Western man .. but the man i am with .. never forces himself on me.. nor demand sex when i don’t feel well.. or just don’t want to do it.  The Chinese man is way different.. i know of some .. who needs to have it.. even though their girlfriend is sick. or having their menses.. while others .. they just don’t want sex.. or only have it once a month.  The western man.. they go with what the woman wants.. and not the other way around.  So because of that.. maybe.. that’s the reason why .. many an asian.. choose the Western man for their live partner..??

Just like the asian men .. the ang mohs needs to be told .. on what to buy.. and what to clean.. or what to do next.  Unfortunately, in this area.. they are not any better than our asian forefathers… even though they are more willing to help out than our grandfathers.

So if you think that your man is smart.. and no need to be told.. think again..!! you will still get the same kinda stress.. that you will get with the asian man.

I used to know a girl who got involved with an engineer back home.  He was of course only in Asia for work.. for a few weeks at a time.  They worked together.. and when he went to Asia.. he would be staying in a hotel.  Poor chinese girlfriend of mine.. got involved with him… she was only 20 yrs old.. he was a little older.  Young . .and of course eager to try a chinese girl.. didn’t know she was a virgin.  Poor girl.. thought that giving him her virginity .. would go home with him.

But he never thought about that at all.. because he was having a fling.. and thinks that she wasn’t suitable for him at all.  And left without even saying goodbye.  You see he had high hopes in his career path.. and he wasn’t letting a very naive asian gal ruin his career.

Poor Chinese girlfriend of mine.. cried till her eyes came out.. but he never even bothered to write back… and not an email.  You tell me.. even those not married ones.. they may not bring you home.

Most must think that their “ang mohs” are smart.. and can hold a conversation really well.  Well.. i’ll have to agree about this one.  No matter how much they don’t like to yak.. like my man.. they can old a good conversation.. unlike some of the Chinese counterparts .. that i’ve dated before.  I’ve not seen an inferior ang moh.. so far.