I don’t know about other Western man .. but the man i am with .. never forces himself on me.. nor demand sex when i don’t feel well.. or just don’t want to do it.  The Chinese man is way different.. i know of some .. who needs to have it.. even though their girlfriend is sick. or having their menses.. while others .. they just don’t want sex.. or only have it once a month.  The western man.. they go with what the woman wants.. and not the other way around.  So because of that.. maybe.. that’s the reason why .. many an asian.. choose the Western man for their live partner..??