Think again.. SISTER..! He may be .. when he was in Asia.. because he wants to appear to be the superior being .. against the limpy Asian man.  But like any relationship.. and if you already have kids.. sex takes the secondary need .. which in some ways is good.  But of course.. if you don’t give them enough sex.. they probaby use this as an excuse to look for another fresher asian face.  I have seen too many asian girls thinking that they can replace the old one.. but it’s not true.. if they can do it with their present one.. they can do it to you too.