He may be.. when he was in Asia.. or maybe even holidaying or meeting you online.. but the reality is such..  once you get to know each other for a certain amount of time.. if you have got nothing to contribute in terms of the brain.. or the looks.. it can pretty much die down pretty quick.

Be prepared.. to be shipped back. .and the hard fact is that when you came here .. you may not even have all your papers correctly done.  If so, you are in big trouble sister..!  so make sure that your paperwork is done before leaving home.. else you will not have any health care.. and you may even become an illegal immigrant.. on the run.