Everyone tells me that mixed unions gives you great looking kids.  Yes and no .. ! i’ve seen some that don’t look that great.  Some ppl are even crazy enough to marry a westerner in hope of a good looking kid.  It’s crazy isn’t it.  But truth be told.. majority yes.. but others.. are not so luckily.  Like i said.. i’ve seen some pretty plain looking ones.

The white men thinks that marrying an Asian.. is so hunkie dory.. with pearly white skin.. or dark tan from philippines.. are so sexy.  Well.. buddy..!!  when you marry an asian.. you are actually marrying her whole family.  Be prepared to send money back to her hometown.. to help her parents build house.. and buy padi fields.  And also to send her brothers and sisters to school.. oh…!! and not forgetting to help the brother-in-law open a small convenient store.  Not funny..! this was what my poor neighbour told me just today.

My mother’s new Filipino maid is only 22  and she had been working for my brother and my mom of course for about 6 months.  You see, my mother and brother and his wife are usually out from 8am in the morning .. till late in the afternoon because they all run the family business.  Well, of course the niece stays at home with the maid.

Tonight my mother called to complain about the Filipino maid, and darn these maids, not just one or two or three .. GOD DAMN IT.. it’s blardy all of them.  Besides my mother’s house, they had a row of new house being put up - under construction .. and guess what..?? apparently the new maid of less than 6 months got hooked up with a Bangladeshi construction worker and is currently pregnant.  *slap forehead*

Despite the fact that my mother was upset, she tried to resolve this issue for her by looking up the man for her.  But guess what..?? the Bangladeshi fella said.. that my mother’s maid is a prostitute and charges for having sex with a few of them.. and he wasn’t the father or denies it.  *slap forehead* .. and apparently THE FILIPINO MAID  BROUGHT THOSE MEN HOME, when looking after my niece .. *slap forehead*.   I swear you can’t even hire them to be maids these days.. I’ve heard so many horror stories.. and we’ve experienced so many, don’t even get me started on them.  To think that there are men out there so stupid as to wanting to marry them.

Darn..!! we had sex .. like a few days ago.. and i’m still oozing sperm ..!!  How Much Sperm Can The Man Shoot Out !!!!  While of course, I like that he shoots his sperm into me, it can be quite stinkie .. after a few hours.. if you don’t wash up immediately.  I know it always makes the man happy to shoot inside you without the condom.. and thank God.. i had the hysterectomy.. meaning no more worries about getting pregnant.!! woohoo..!!!  So why does the man feels good.. when they shoot their sperm into your vagina instead of pulling out..???  because it makes them not only feels good.. but kinda superior i think.  You don’t think so ..?? come on men .. i know that’s the reason.. hhaha!! that was what i hear a lot of my male engineers said .. when we were traveling for work.  I hear they even do that to the prostitutes.. just because.. and not even worried about getting AIDS.. !!! DAMN GUYS..!!

The myth is that the asian girl is great in bed..  and seriously .. i don’t think it is because she can do acrobatic movements.  I am sure the “ang mohs” can tell you that… i think it is seriously because the Asian gals are not such big bones as compared to the Western gals.  The Asian girls are said to be tighter too .. and that’s because they really know how to take care of themselves.

Some smart asian girls would rather not have a normal birth.. but choose a c-section.. and that’s because they wanna make sure.. that they can keep their “ang moh” husbands happy and feeling satisfied.  I can tell you it is true because once you have had a few kids, you are definitely not as tight as before.. but if you choose a c-section.. of course there are not changes where the vagina part is right..??

Yes, yes.. some of you .. may think we are dense or shallow or whatever.. but if you can see the happy and satisfied face of my man.. when we had sex last nite.. and how darn painful it is for me.. you know he is not gonna go elsewhere to get some tight pussy. Muahahahahha!!!  So yes, a tight pussy does help in keeping your man happy, as far as i can see it.. the man is pretty pleased, afterall, he sure came quite… because of being so tight.

Yes..! i wasn’t in the mood to write.. all because it sometimes feel shitty to be here when the man’s mother don’t feel you are family.. and tell you that it was illegal .. to use their family name.. after of being 8 yrs in this country.

See gals..!! make sure you get your status right.. and don’t be like me.  I choose not to get married.. because I wasn’t proposed to properly.. and everytime we talked about it.. he would say.. whatever you want.  So it is not his want..??  therefore.. i know he is not very much into me.. and is not in the situation .. where he cannot lived without me.. but moreso for the kid.  So i chose not to marry… that way if anything goes wrong.. i can just pack and walk.

Does it make sense to you all..??  i came for a dream. .and love.. but i feel so alone now.  If not for my kid.. i think i would already have walked out.

I read on another blog a few days ago.. her “LOVE” story and how she got married to her husband.. she is a filipino.. and him.. a American. They were penpals .. and he went to philippines to visit his other penpals in Manila.  After his visiting .. he visited her.. and proposed on the same nite.. the same day they met.

OMG..!!  can it really be true love..?? on his part..?? and hers..?? or just desperation on both.  Afterall, he met other philippinos before her..?? so they were either darn ugly or old.. or she is just an old maid..??  How could it be love right..?? C’mon..!! you’ve gotta be kidding me.

Some of the friends i know.. wants to marry an Asian girl because they are supposedly more submissive.  Now how lame is that..?? Whenever they say that.. i wished i could just jump over the counter and smack them on their heads.  Some Asian girls may be submissive.. but even those.. once they are here long enough.. they learn to stand up for themselves.. and others.. who just marry to get outta their country.. well.. you know as soon as they get here.. and get their legal status..you are a GOOONNNERRRR..!!!  now who is gonna get the last laugh..??

Not all white men are highly educated .. the ones you see on the net .. may not turn out to be true to what they say they are.  Some are even on welfare.. and can’t even find a job.. for years.  So if you ever get hooked up with someone like that.. you are probably doomed.  Plus flights back home ain’t cheap.  I know of a few men like this over here.

So really ..?? why do we all do that..?? Is there no man where we come from..??  or do the asians really think that they get a beetter life here..??  I know of so many filipinos doing everything just to get to the west.. and i mean anything.  It’s funny how they can go online on a dating site.. and entice the western man.. to visit them in China or Philippines and get married immediately on their first meet.  Big move.. in such short time.  I don’t know to applaud them for their bravery.. or to pity them.