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Myths & Facts Of An Asian Woman and A Westerner Marriage

Just Like Asian Men

Posted by Mrs SPG

Just like the asian men .. the ang mohs needs to be told .. on what to buy.. and what to clean.. or what to do next.  Unfortunately, in this area.. they are not any better than our asian forefathers… even though they are more willing to help out than our grandfathers.

So if you think that your man is smart.. and no need to be told.. think again..!! you will still get the same kinda stress.. that you will get with the asian man.

They Are Smart

Posted by Mrs SPG

Most must think that their “ang mohs” are smart.. and can hold a conversation really well.  Well.. i’ll have to agree about this one.  No matter how much they don’t like to yak.. like my man.. they can old a good conversation.. unlike some of the Chinese counterparts .. that i’ve dated before.  I’ve not seen an inferior ang moh.. so far.

No They Don’t Own Their Own Houses

Posted by Mrs SPG

Most of you gals must think that the “ang mohs” own their own home.. but let me tell you .. they don’t. Almost all the i know.. rent the house or apartment they lived in. For someone to own their own home here.. you have to put up 20% in deposit.. and you have to have a good steady job.. and good credit rating. In places like where i lived right now.. jobs do not pay so much.. and most people work seasonal here.. and are on unemployment .. for a good part of the year.

So don’t think that your knight with shining amour comes with lots of properties on hand.. for you to stay in.

Are The White Men Really Good In Bed..??

Posted by Mrs SPG

It is always thought that the white man is good in bed. .and sex.  Being with one.. definitely gives me the right to kiss and tell eh..??  Well.. yes.. the white man is absolutely different from the asians.  They are considered very considerate.. and try to take care of your needs first.. but let me tell you .. like the asian men.. they roll over and fall asleep too.. after sex.

Maids You Will Not Have

Posted by Mrs SPG

Nope.. no maid at all..!! so if you think you don’t have to lift a finger .. like when you were in Asia with him.. think again.  Practically everything that needs to be done.. has to be done by yours truly. From cleaning to cooking to mowing the lawn.. and shoveling the snow.  The ang moh is not really as pro-active nor sauvey anymore.  Bring your cleaning stuff with you.

Immigration & You

Posted by Mrs SPG

Marrying a white man.. doesn’t automatically make you a citizen in USA or England.  You still have to go thru’ many stringent interviews .. paper work. .and of course money for doing your immigration papers.  A good $2K is involved excluding medical check ups..and xrays.  So if your idea of getting involved with the white man in asia.. is to get you citizenship.. and bringing your whole family to USA .. think again.

Ang Moh Don’t Like Bathing !

Posted by Mrs SPG

Yes.. especially during winter..!! ang moh don’t think there is a need to shower every other day.. to save water and heating.  He would wait till his beard is so itchy.. and he can’t take it no more.. from the scratching.. ahhhh..! then he would go shower.  Deodorant is his best friend.  Ang Moh very easy with hygiene.

White Men Back Home Are Just Men

Posted by Mrs SPG

After coming home with the white man.. your white man may not be able to find the same kinda job that he had in Asia.. and then what..??  That means you have to go out and work.. while he stays home and collect unemployment..!  Yes.. many asians end up being sales gal or call center gals.. or even pizza call gals.. or end up working at Starbucks.

Where once upon a time you see smartness in your white man.. he probably suxs in his home town.  Plus his buddies may try and get into your pants as well.  Think about it.

Hairy Means Sexy ..?? No..?

Posted by Mrs SPG

Think again.. SISTER..! He may be .. when he was in Asia.. because he wants to appear to be the superior being .. against the limpy Asian man.  But like any relationship.. and if you already have kids.. sex takes the secondary need .. which in some ways is good.  But of course.. if you don’t give them enough sex.. they probaby use this as an excuse to look for another fresher asian face.  I have seen too many asian girls thinking that they can replace the old one.. but it’s not true.. if they can do it with their present one.. they can do it to you too.

What Fine Dining..?

Posted by Mrs SPG

Not all Ang Mohs love to eat in restaurant.  If you think that after going home to the states with him. .and you will be dining and wineing .. like when he was in Asia.. on company’s account.. you would be in a rude shock.

The ang mohs that i know prefer home cooked food.. or sandwiches.  Some loves their pizzas so much.. you wouldn’t believe what a fat slop they can become. Like mine.. he wouldn’t even try the food that I cook .. from home.   Of course they do go out and eat in restaurants.. but not on a weekly basis.  So braise yourself .. girlfriend..!! high -living.. is prolly not what he had in mind either..at home.

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